My Story

I have been in your shoe’s multiple times…

I raised my younger sister from high school through college and then, much later, raised my boy/girl twins, who graduated college in 2020—and did all of this without having had parents since I was 19. I had to work really hard to figure things out in terms of what works, what doesn’t, and how to navigate it all.

I have helped thousands of parents, tweens, teens, and young adults over 16+ years in the youth-focused substance abuse prevention and mental wellness field. I am certified in Strengthening Families Program, Covey 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens, suicide prevention, am a Reiki Master, and more.

I am truly honored to support you on your parenting journey, which can be one of the most rewarding and messy experiences on this planet, and one that we will cherish forever.   

Let’s do this together…

Are We a Good Fit?

At BE Your Influence™, we believe in a collaborative approach to empowerment. If you’re a parent, educator, or school leader dedicated to making a positive impact on young lives, you’re in the right place. Here’s how we can work together to foster resilience, confidence, and growth:

For Parents

Are you ready to truly be there for your children while building confidence and resilience within yourself? At BE Your Influence, we guide parents on how to navigate the joys and challenges of raising young people in today’s world.

• Empowerment for You: Learn to support yourself emotionally, so you can be the best role model for your child.

• Parenting Tools That Work: Access proven strategies to guide your children through issues like peer pressure, school stress, and more.

• Creating a Lasting Impact: Discover how small changes in your approach can create a ripple effect, positively influencing your child’s confidence and decision-making.

If you’re looking to strengthen both your relationship with yourself and with your child, BE Your Influence can help you make a difference.

For Schools

Do you want to equip students with the life skills needed to navigate challenges and prepare for the future? BE Your Influence partners with schools to foster a supportive, growth-oriented environment for both students and educators.

• Student Engagement Programs: Our interactive sessions focus on goal setting, stress management, and effective communication.

• Supporting the Whole Community: We help teachers and staff build connections that make a positive impact on students’ lives.

• Customized Support: Whether through our Alternative to Suspension Program or workshops, we offer tailored solutions that fit your school’s unique needs.

Together, let’s create a culture of resilience and empowerment that benefits your entire school community.

For Youth

Are you a young person looking to feel more in control of your future, make better decisions, and build strong connections with others? At BE Your Influence, we provide tools that help you set a solid foundation for the next phase of life—whether that’s high school, college, or beyond.

Here’s what you’ll gain from working with us:

• Clarity on Goals: Our sessions begin with exploring your dreams and goals, so you can confidently shape your path forward.

• Life Skills for Success: Through Don Miguel Ruiz’s The Four Agreements and other empowering concepts, you’ll learn to manage your thoughts, feelings, and actions in positive ways.

• Effective Communication: With our Strategic C.A.L.M. Approach to Communication™, you’ll build skills to handle conversations with confidence and respect.

• Stress Management Tools: Learn practical techniques for reducing stress, so you can navigate life’s challenges with ease.

If you’re ready to take control of your journey, make empowered choices, and show up as your best self, BE Your Influence could be the perfect fit for you.

Carol brings over 16 years of experience in the youth-focused substance abuse prevention and mental wellness fields. She is certified in evidence-based programs like the Strengthening Families Program and Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens. Carol is here to provide you with practical tools that build resilience and emotional intelligence.

Our Core Belief

We believe that everyone has the power to BE their own influence. Whether you’re a parent wanting to model positive behavior for your children, a school committed to nurturing a supportive atmosphere, or a young person discovering your unique path, BE Your Influence provides a foundation for making choices that shape a positive future.

If you’re ready to invest in yourself and your community, let’s do this together. With every tool, program, and conversation, we’re here to empower you to lead by example and foster lasting impact.

Let’s create a brighter, more connected future— one choice, one moment, one influence at a time.